Rabbi Bruce's Reflections on Life

Dear Friends, I decided to write one more blog this week as today was 18 weeks from the actual family funeral for Sue. I don't know how long I will continue to write these grieving logs because of something that happened last night. As I put into the subject, there are simple things that make for precious moments. Last night when I sat next to a granddaughter with whom Sue had a very special relationship as the oldest granddaughter I felt Sue's presence next to me, I finally understood the meaning of the following prayer with which many of you are familiar that was written by Rabbis Sylvan Kamens and Rabbi Jack Riemer. ‘We Remember Them’ by Rabbis Sylvan Kamens & Jack Riemer At the rising sun and at its going down; We remember them. At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter; We remember them. At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring; We remember them. At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of summer; We remember them. At the...

 Dear Friends, 18 weeks ago today life changed forever for our family and for me.  The moments continue to be intense and the recollections are filled with love.  One of you told me that bank accounts close, but love accounts remain open forever. Who would have thought that mild chest pain would be a sign that an aorta was about to burst? As I continue to struggle with the grief and embrace the love and support I am receiving, I want to reiterate my gratitude to so many of you who continue to accompany me on this journey.  I hope you will continue to bear with the ups and downs and that I am not becoming a burden. You can always delete these messages:-) In preparation for the Jewish New Year next month, I was reading the following from a prayer entitled "We are Clay." We are the rudder You are the helmsman Who steers us to the left or to the right Direct us to the shore you choose Do not let us idly spin Even if we consistently resist your grasp. Remem...

 Dear Friends, As the calendar turns to August and I continue to travel to see family and friends, folks keep being so supportive and for this I continue to be grateful.  I am so blessed that you have not forgotten about me and continue to support me. In commemorating Tisha B'Av tonight, a day set aside on the Jewish calendar to remember the destruction of the Temples in Jerusalem and other tragedies in Jewish life, I wanted to share what I hope is an uplifting thought. At a Jewish wedding the groom (and occasionally the bride and groom) break a glass at the conclusion of the ceremony.  This reminds them and us that there are moments of sadness in our lives, dreams that shatter, and that the Jewish people and all of us have endured challenges in our lives..  Immediately after the glass is broken, those in attendance shout mazel tov to remind us that there is hope and joy even in the midst of sorrow. Last night I hosted a Shabbat dinner for almost 20 pe...