In Memory of My Beloved Wife
Dear Friends,
19357 Evergreen Mills Road
Sue was born on February 17, 1955, to Esther and Marvin Steinberg in Champaign, IL, the middle of three children. She grew up in Champaign and was an accomplished swimmer (although she was humble and never showed anyone her medals). After graduating high school a year early, she spent a gap year working on a Kibbutz in Israel. Sue returned from Israel and went on to study at the University of Illinois where she met her husband Bruce who asked her out after she stuck her tongue out at him. Sue and Bruce were devoted friends and partners for over 50 years, with one of Sue's favorite phrases being, "what can I getcha?"
Sue loved to help others. After graduating with a degree in psychology in just three years, Sue dedicated the early part of her adult life to being a loving, kind, and committed mother and spouse. Sue moved with Bruce and the kids around the country as Bruce's career as a rabbi took the family through Illinois, Arizona, Michigan and ultimately to Northern Virginia, which became home. Before having children, Sue was a preschool director in Wynnefield, PA while Bruce was in rabbinical school.
Sue served as a shining beacon of positivity, kindness, light, passion, hope, and optimism for the countless lives that she touched. She was also a strong supporter of interfaith dialogue and believed passionately in building community. In addition to being completely devoted to her children and family, Sue tirelessly volunteered across a wide range of organizations, dedicating much of her work to teaching, tutoring, and mentoring those who are less fortunate, including her work and mentorship in tutoring homeless students for Fairfax County Public Schools. Soon, she and Bruce will have a special George Mason University Hillel and Jewish Studies award for kindness named after them.
A dedicated grandmother, "Savta Sue" was a constant and meaningful presence in the lives of her grandchildren (Caleb, Olivia, Jonah, Ari, Ezra, Noa, Bruce, Herschel, and Ellie), inspiring them to pursue their passions across sports, sewing, cooking and everything in between. Rarely was there an ailment that couldn't be fixed by Sue's challah, and her warmth and kindness radiated throughout the many communities and families that she touched. Her ability to do all kinds of crafts and make things for others has been shared extensively as people have comforted her family. She carried her "red bag" filled with fun things to do as she spent countless hours with her grandchildren playing games, conducting science experiments, flying airplanes, sewing, and many other activities.
Sue is survived by her husband Bruce, their four children and spouses (Miriam, Aaron (Leah), Adam (Adina), and Michael (Erin)), nine grandchildren, brother Lou (Rivka), sister Ruth (Warren), and nephews, nieces, cousins, and dear friends. Bruce has summed up her life by saying Sue was his beloved and his friend. For all who knew Sue, she will be missed.
There will be a celebration of life on Sunday, May 4 from 3pm-6pm (with memories being shared at 4pm) at Congregation Sha'are Shalom in Leesburg, VA where Bruce served as interim rabbi and which provided the Aft family very special support during a prior time of need.
Donations in Sue's honor can be made to The Growth and Healing HUB, which is a nonprofit mental health clinic of excellence where Sue was serving on the board. The Growth and Healing HUB provides mental health services to children, youth, adults, and families and does not turn anyone away due to inability to pay. Donations may be sent to the HUB at 7686 Richmond Highway, Suite 201C, Alexandria, VA 22306, or made online at www.gandh.org.
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